The book that has sold tens of thousands of copies is now revised and expanded, including new sections about analingus, feminism and men, how to support your bisexual girlfriend, polyamory and other relationship styles, a new sexual workout, and more. This book will change your sex life!

For men, the intimate workings of the female body have long remained one of the great mysteries of the universe. What gives her the most pleasure? Where should you be touching her – and how? Fortunately, there are some people who can offer men the empirical knowledge gained from a lifetime of pleasing women – and getting pleased by them. This frank, frolicsome, and wonderfully illuminating book draws on the sexual advice and sex secrets of lesbians to help men become better lovers. A groundbreaking dialogue between straight men and gay women, and an erotic look inside the often hidden world of lesbian sex, Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men reveals a whole new approach to pleasure for men and the women they love. At the same time, this book proves that while sex is something we all do naturally, a little focused effort – and a few simple lessons – can open up a whole new world of enjoyment.

A note from Amy Jo & Kurt for the 2015 edition…

We first published Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men in 2000. The internet was in its infancy. Online dating was in its beta stage. Designer vibrators had not yet been created. There was no Shane craze because The L-Word had not been born. 9/11 hadn’t even happened. The dot com boom was about to go bust. There was no Fifty Shades driving kink into pop culture. We had no social media sites where we could poll people and hear people’s concerns, perspectives and stories. All of our original data came from emailed surveys and live in-person focus groups. What a different world. At the time, Amy Jo was teaching sexuality to teenagers in New York City public schools, and chose to use a nickname in order to protect the work she was doing with young people.

It’s hard to believe Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men is now a fifteen-year-old teenager already enmeshed in the world of dating and adolescent sexploration. They grow up so fast, don’t they? The book has helped thousands upon thousands of people over the last fifteen years. Click here to read more…